PASSION & PRESENCE®
Mindful Couples Sex Therapy

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16-Month Online Training Certificate Program For Helping Professionals

Our Certificate Training isn’t just a program; it’s a gateway to becoming a sexually informed professional.

12 Segments
33 Online Classes
  • Are you a helping professional who works with couples (or wants to)?
  • Do you sometimes find yourself feeling uneasy or ill-equipped to address sexuality?
  • Would you like to enhance your skills and explore this intricate, complex, and sacred facet of human expression?

Sexuality is an integral aspect of our humanity, intricately woven into the fabric of intimate relationships. However, even therapists well-versed in relationships may tread this terrain cautiously, wary of making a potential misstep or being intrusive. Yet, our clients need a safe place to explore all aspects of their lives.

The Mindful Couples Sex Therapy Certificate is an empowering journey designed to instill confidence in navigating the delicate realm of sexual issues within long-term relationships.

It equips you with the skills, experiential activities, and mindful methodology necessary to address the spectrum of challenges partners face, including “low” or discrepant desire, shame, power struggles, performance anxiety, infidelity, and more.

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As a program participant, you’ll:

  • Engage in real-world scenarios with plenty of opportunities to watch demonstrations.
  • Practice and refine your skills in interactive breakout rooms and monthly Peer Pods.
  • Receive group case consultation providing practical guidance for real-world scenarios.
  • Craft activities designed for immediate implementation with your clients.

Curious about the full spectrum of possibilities?
Click here to explore our comprehensive Program Objectives.

Equip Yourself to Make a Profound Impact

COMPASSIONATE EXPLORATION

Learn to navigate sexual issues with empathy and collaborative inquiry, fostering an environment of trust and understanding.

UNCOVER HIDDEN BARRIERS

Delve deep into the “Hidden Factors” that obstruct pleasure and expression, unlocking new pathways to intimacy.

INNOVATIVE APPROACHES

Design “little experiments” to explore unconscious couple dynamics, unveiling patterns that may be impacting your clients’ relationships.

COMPASSIONATE EXPLORATION

Utilize processes grounded in neuroscience to effectively address and heal erotic wounds, empowering your clients toward positive transformation.

TRAUMA-INFORMED PRACTICE

Equip yourself to support trauma survivors in reconnecting with their bodies, fostering a safe space for healing.

INFIDELITY RECOVERY

Guide individuals and couples through the delicate process of erotic recovery after infidelity, helping them rebuild trust and intimacy.

NAVIGATING LIFE CHANGES

Assist those grappling with medical or age-related changes in finding new pleasure pathways, ensuring that pleasure remains a central aspect of their lives.

What is Passion & Presence®?

Passion & Presence® is a method of sexual healing and enrichment for couples/partners rooted in Mindfulness.

It focuses on pleasure and connection rather than sexual functioning and uses “bottom-up” interventions from somatic psychotherapy to access barriers to erotic fulfillment.

The depth-oriented, experiential techniques of Passion & Presence® are suitable for addressing a wide range of sexual issues and combine well with other clinical modalities.

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Passion & Presence® has three levels:

Understanding the three levels helps you know which path to start with and orients you and your clients to the process.

LEVEL 1
Use mindfulness to plumb the depths of your clients’ erotic lives gently.

LEVEL 2
Give clients the skills to work with triggers in real-time so they can stop fearing running into difficulties during sex.

LEVEL 3
Offer a path and practice of “Awakened Intimacy” for those who choose to use the erotic portal for transformation.

Mindful, Somatic, Process-Oriented, and Experiential

These words describe the Passion & Presence® approach (and how we teach).

TRAUMA-INFORMED PRACTICE

Mindfulness offers a new paradigm for helping professions emphasizing exploration rather than treatment.
The state of Mindfulness also has many eros-enhancing benefits.

  • It cultivates an embodied, wakeful presence that supports pleasurable, pressure-free encounters.
  • It sharpens the senses and enhances pleasure.
  • It helps partners wake up from eros-inhibiting body-mind states.
  • It brings freshness to couples/partners who feel stuck in predictable routines.
  • It helps partners access the “Hidden Factors” shaping their avoidance and can illuminate their deepest desires.
  • It helps couples caught in “blame and shame” cycles see what’s beneath their protective patterns.
  • It enables couples/partners to befriend the inescapable change, uncertainty, disappointment, and grief of long-term erotic coupling.

SOMATIC

The body offers avenues to healing that go deeper than words alone.

Passion & Presence® relies on the body’s wisdom to guide the process, using the felt sense as a bridge to early imprints partners encode around sexuality, pleasure, connection, and self-expression.

PROCESS-ORIENTED

We don’t know where we are heading until we get there.

Passion & Presence® recognizes that transformation is an iterative process of uncovering the next piece…and the next. Each discovery informs the path forward, which means, like good sex, it’s wildly creative and unpredictable.

EXPERIENTIAL

Instead of analyzing and reflecting, Passion & Presence® practitioners activate the core pattern and explore it in real time.

The approach goes beyond discussion and reflection by offering ways to bring the issue “into the room” to study the unconscious dynamics shaping each partner’s experience.

Who is this training for?

This program is for psychotherapists, counselors, couple’s therapists, relationship coaches, sexuality coaches, and healthcare professionals.

YOU’LL TAKE TO THIS APPROACH IF YOU:

  • Are more interested in discovering than diagnosing, exploring than explaining, listening & learning than dispensing advice (Although sex ed is important too!)
  • Want to give the power back to your clients to honor what feels realistic, desirable, and pleasurable to them.
  • Believe that all sex is “good sex” if it’s pleasurable and consensual.
  • View pleasure as a birthright regardless of a person’s gender identity and expression, sexual and relationship orientation, size, age, race, or ability.

 

Who can benefit from this approach?

Whether you work with spiritual seekers or salt-of-the-earth types who want better sex – or any sex – you can tailor this approach to a wide range of clients.

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What's Included

As a participant of the training, you will receive:

COMPREHENSIVE TRAINING HOURS
100 live/synchronous virtual training hours spread across 33 classes, each lasting 4.5 hours.

EXTENSIVE TOOLKIT​
80+ Experiential Activities ready for immediate use in sessions and as impactful homework exercises.

MINDFULNESS PRACTICES
Mindfulness practices designed to initiate sessions, fostering a bridge to the “deeper issues” right from the very start.

DIVERSE LEARNING MATERIALS
A curated collection of videos, audios, and articles to enrich your learning journey.

LIFETIME ACCESS
Unlimited access to a dedicated learning portal with recordings, activities, and worksheets, ensuring your ongoing growth.

Meet Maci Daye

AASECT-CERTIFIED SEX THERAPIST, HAKOMI TRAINER, AUTHOR & PLEASURE ACTIVIST​

Maci is the creator of Passion & Presence® and lead instructor of the course.

With graduate degrees in human sexuality, human development, and counseling from both Harvard and Georgia State Universities and training in Somatic Experiencing, Matrixworks Group leadership, and coaching, Maci possesses a unique, multifaceted perspective on sexuality and human connection. As a Trainer, Maci brings clarity, authenticity, and a contagious enthusiasm that transforms learning into an engaging exploration of the beautiful complexities of being human.

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Why We Created This Program

The 2020 publication of Maci’s book Passion and Presence: A Couple’s Guide to Awakened Intimacy and Mindful Sex seeded the idea for this training.

Couples reached out for individual support (more than we could provide), and practitioners, inspired by our gentle, trauma-sensitive approach, asked for training in the model. We wanted to develop a curriculum that captures the heart and soul of Passion & Presence – its mindful paradigm, experiential orientation, and respect for each partner’s inborn growth path and unique erotic expression.

This training is our offering, guided by the same creative process that births all of life and sparks our pure erotic potential. If it speaks to you, please join us.

Full Curriculum

About

33 live, virtual 4.5-hour classes.
All Sessions Meet from 10:00 am – 2:30 pm  (Eastern, USA) Check your time zone here.

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1

The Path and Practice of Passion & Presence ®

In this opening segment, we introduce the foundational principles of Passion & Presence® using a mindful, experiential, and somatic framework.

We’ll examine how internal models of sexuality influence clients’ behaviors and how adopting a sex-positive perspective can reframe narratives of dysfunction into opportunities for connection, healing, and growth. You will learn to cultivate a compassionate, curious therapeutic presence that creates emotional safety and supports exploration of the implicit experiences shaping sexuality.

Skills: Reporting from the Observer, Contacting the here-and-now, Deepening with Mindfulness, Accessing the Sexual Operating System.

CLASS #1

Sunday, May 17, 2026

The Naked Path

  • Problems Can Fertilize Growth
  • The Power of Disidentification
  • Enhancing Embodied Awareness
  • Dirty Talk: Asking Partners About Their Sex Lives

CLASS #2

Monday, May 18, 2026

Empowerment through Sex Positivity

  • The Dangers of Models
  • The “Over-Medicalization” of Sex
  • De-pathologizing Sexuality
  • Accessing the Internal Treatment Plan

CLASS #3

Sunday June 14, 2026

Deepening with Mindfulness

  • Tuning into the Present Moment
  • Trusting the Unfolding Process
  • Practicing the Art of Cross-Tracking
  • Distinguishing “Bottom-Up” vs. “Top-Down” Processing

CLASS #4

Monday, June 15, 2026

Deepening into the Sexual Operating System

  • Asking Questions That Support Inner Exploration
  • Using Your Voice to Invite Curiosity and Self-Connection
  • Naming What’s Happening in the Room — In Real Time
  • Applying the “Explore & Inform” Framework

2

From Disenchantment to Re-Enchantment

In the second segment of our training, we explore how consciousness shapes our erotic reality.

You’ll learn to recognize the subtle yet powerful effects of the “familiarity trance”—the numbness or disconnection that can arise in long-term relationships. Through the practice of mindful presence and the art of Seeing Fresh, you’ll gain tools to help couples awaken from this trance and rediscover eros with renewed curiosity, vitality, and emotional depth.

Skills: Seeing Fresh, Erotic Mapping, Mindful Touch, Catch & Release Technique.

CLASS #5

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Erotic Absence: How Partners Lose the “Spark”

  • The Three Developmental Stages of Intimate Relationships
  • Common Reasons Couples Plateau in Stage Two
  • Automaticity: Adaptive Mechanism or Erotic Inhibitor?
  • Attentional Drift: Where the Mind Goes During Sexual Encounters

CLASS #6

Monday, July 13, 2026

The Numbing Effects of Familiarity

  • Humans as “Anticipatory Machines”
  • The Erotic Cost of being a “Know-It-All”
  • How Negative Priming Inhibits Erotic Vitality
  • Identifying the Impact of “Worst-Case” Predictions

CLASS #7

Sunday, August 9, 2026

Rekindling Erotic Curiosity

  • Mindful Sex: Being Here, Not Just Getting Off
  • “Emptying the Database” to “See Fresh”
  • Cultivating an “Anything Is Possible” Mindset
  • The “Catch and Release” Technique to Enhance Erotic Presence

CLASS #8

Monday, August 10, 2026

Erotic Awakening and Integration

  • Moving from Certainty to Discovery in Intimate Dynamics
  • Introducing Clients to Pure Erotic Potential (PEP)
  • Exploring Erotic Intimacy as a Pathway to Psychospiritual Growth
  • Live Demonstration, Q&A, and Integration of Core Interventions

3

Erotic Cooperation: When Chemistry Gets Complicated

In this third segment, you’ll learn how to turn common erotic impasses into opportunities for meaningful growth and deeper intimacy.

Through guided practices, you’ll support partners in identifying and sharing the often-hidden vulnerabilities that lie beneath their conflicts—creating space for mutual understanding and shared ownership of their erotic life. By bringing mindful awareness to their reactive states, you’ll help partners cultivate greater empathy, emotional attunement, and a more cooperative erotic bond—one where even tension becomes a pathway to connection.

Guest Speaker: Halko Weiss, Ph.D., Author, Hakomi Founder, and Creator of the Reciprocal Interaction Loop (RIL).

Skills: Diagramming the Reciprocal Interaction Loop, 3Rs, PREP, Mindful Co-Investigation, Mindful Dialogue, Listening from the Heart.

CLASS #9

Sunday, August 30, 2026

Understanding States and Parts

  • Interrupting Entrenched Conflict Cycles
  • Working Effectively with Protector States
  • Tracking the Reciprocal Dance of Parts
  • Uncovering the Vulnerability Beneath Defenses

CLASS #10

Monday, August 31, 2026

The “High Road” and the “Low Road”

  • Emergency Roadside Assistance for the Nervous System
  • PREP: Pause, Regulate, Explore, Peaceful Presence
  • Working with States of Hopelessness and Disconnection
  • Cupid’s Wings: Soothing and Softening Protective Systems

CLASS #11

Sunday September 27, 2026

Holding Hands Through the Hard Stuff

  • The Care Cycle: Reveal, Reach, Repair
  • Beneath the Armor: Facilitating Radical Nakedness
  • The Gentle Art of Compassionate Contact
  • Repairing Relational Ruptures

CLASS #12

Monday, September 28, 2026

Keys to Erotic Cooperation

  • Partnering for Intimate Connection
  • Tending States and Parts in Erotic Contexts
  • Mindful Erotic Dialogue
  • Live Practice, Q&A, and Integration of Core Skills

4

Erotic Healing: Rebuilding Trust, Reclaiming Pleasure

Although we often associate sex with joy and pleasure, for many people, it can also awaken old wounds and stir uncomfortable emotions or sensations.

In this fourth training segment, you’ll explore methods to support clients in rebuilding trust in their embodied wisdom. A particular focus will be on how trauma can shape partner sex—affecting both individuals and the relational field—and how to shift from isolation to collaboration by approaching sex as a team. You’ll learn how to help clients uncouple “now” from “then,” using somatic interventions and Memory Reconsolidation techniques to heal the past and create new, empowering experiences in the present.

Guest Speaker: Luis Mojica, SEP, Somatic Therapist and Founder of Holistic Life Navigation

Skills: Response-agility, the 5S’s, Mindful Self-Study, Planting Hearts, Befriending, Tracking the Charge, Pendulation, Using Resource Scales.

CLASS #13

Sunday, October 25, 2026

Unlocking the Sexual Operating System (SOS)

  • Unconscious Learning: What We Learn Without Knowing It
  • How Early Imprints Shape Our Sexuality
  • Revealing the “Hidden Factors” Influencing Intimacy
  • Black Light Syndrome: Understanding State-Dependent Memory

CLASS #14

Monday, October 26, 2026

How Trauma Impacts Partnered Sexuality

  • Understanding Sexually Guarded States and Aversions
  • Identifying Automatic Defensive Patterns in Sexual Contexts
  • Exploring Fear, Dysregulation, and Dissociation
  • Addressing Guilt, Grief, Loss, and Resentment for Both Partners

CLASS #15

Sunday, November 22, 2026

Healing Sexual Trauma: Pathways to Renewal

  • The 5 S’s: Stop, Study, Share, Select, & Savor
  • Creating Prediction Failures to Promote Safety and Growth
  • Differentiating the Present “Now” from the Past “Then”
  • Mending Erotic Wounds through “Planting Hearts”

CLASS #16

Monday, November 23, 2026

Somatic Approaches to Trauma Recovery

  • Understanding Why Erotic Expansion May Feel Unsafe for Survivors
  • Recognizing Sexual Fawning: When “No” Becomes “Yes”
  • Establishing Boundaries Using Mindfulness and the Felt Sense
  • Transitioning from Surviving to Thriving: Transformative Journeys

5

The Biggest Stumper: Where Did My Desire Go?

In this fifth training segment, we explore the most common issue that brings couples into sex therapy: low desire.

Using a bio-psycho-social lens, we’ll examine the complex interplay of factors that can dampen desire—including relational dynamics, psychological influences, cultural messaging, and gender disparities. You’ll learn what current science reveals about pleasure and desire, and how to help partners move from frustration to hope by discovering collaborative, empowering pathways back to Eros.

Skills: Positive Erotic Priming, Discovering Your Why? Cultivating a Pleasure-Receptive State, Grip and Release, Working with Shame, Genital Re-perceiving.

CLASS #17

Sunday, December 13, 2026

The Desire Puzzle

  • Understanding When Partners Aren’t “Feeling It”
  • Responsive Desire as Authentic Desire
  • Erotic Priming: Preparing the Mind for Intimacy
  • Embracing Willingness as a Valid Erotic Entry Point

CLASS #18

Monday, December 14, 2026

Identifying What Hinders Eros


  • Cognitive Load and the Impact of the “Second Shift”
  • Resentment as a Major Barrier to Erotic Connection
  • How Stress Physically De-Eroticizes the Body
  • The Role of Body Shame in Disembodiment

CLASS #19

Sunday, January 10, 2027

Identifying What Fuels Eros

  • Context as a Critical Factor in Desire
  • Creating Conditions for Erotic Aliveness
  • Balancing Arousal and Safety
  • Supporting the Shift from Tension to Turn-On: Cultivating Pleasure-Ready States

CLASS #20

Monday, January 11, 2027

When Oppressive Systems Get in the Way


  • The Impact of Heteronormativity on Vulva-Owners’ Experiences
  • Decolonizing the Body: Reclaiming Autonomy
  • Closing the Pleasure Gap: An Introduction to Clitoracy
  • Strategies for Overcoming Genital Aversion

6

Healing from Betrayal: Creating a New Monogamy

In this segment, we’ll explore the many forms affairs can take—and how relationships can heal not by fixating on the affair itself, but by rebuilding intimacy and trust.

You’ll learn to guide partners through the three stages of recovery, offering a clear framework for long-term healing. We’ll examine the deeper meanings of betrayal and introduce interventions to help couples repair emotional wounds, restructure their relationship agreements, and redefine their future—one rooted in mutual insight, honesty, and growth.

Guest Presenters: TBA

CLASS #21

Monday, February 8, 2027

Mapping the Many Faces of Betrayal

  • Understanding the Three Stages of Recovery
  • Supporting Partners in Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust
  • Facilitating Meaning-Making Around the Affair
  • Guiding the Restructuring of Relationship Agreements

7

Expanding Love: Guiding Couples Through Ethical Non-Monogamy

This class equips you to support couples navigating the complexities of ethical non-monogamy (ENM).

You’ll develop skills to facilitate open and respectful communication, gain insights into common emotional and relational challenges, and learn practical strategies for guiding clients through various stages of their ENM journey. Through case studies, experiential exercises, and concrete tools, you will enhance your ability to help clients navigate complexity, strengthen communication, and create relational agreements grounded in clarity, consent, and mutual care.

Guest Presenters: TBA

CLASS #22

Monday, February 15, 2027

Supporting Partners on Their ENM Journey:

  • Understanding Diverse Relationship Structures
  • Addressing Jealousy, Insecurity, and Power Dynamics
  • Facilitating Open and Respectful Dialogue
  • Building Clear, Consent-Based Agreements

8

Erotic Expression as a Path to Integration, Expansion, and Growth

In this eighth training segment, you’ll learn to help partners step into a more expansive, curious, and courageous exploration of their erotic lives.

You’ll gain tools to support clients in bridging arousal differences, unpacking aversions, and expressing desire with authenticity, playfulness, and care. Together, we’ll explore how to awaken curiosity about the many forms Eros can take, give voice to longings often left unspoken, and tend to the shame that too often silences desire. You’ll discover empowering ways to guide partners in reclaiming exiled aspects of their erotic selves and fostering a more embodied, vulnerable, and connected intimacy—one that embraces the full spectrum of human desire.

Skills: Somatic Self-Attunement, Embodied Consent, Creating a Sexual Menu, Parts Play, Mindful Co-investigation of Aversions, Fantasy Exploration, Erotic Empathy

CLASS #23

Sunday, March 7, 2027

Mining the Erotic Imagination

  • Signs and Signposts of the “Safety Trance”
  • Erotic Imagery as Portals to the Psyche
  • Understanding the “Who” and the “What” in Fantasies
  • Revisiting the Wide and Deep Paths to Novelty

CLASS #24

Monday March 8, 2027

The Many Guises of Eros

  • Befriending Unexpressed Erotic Parts
  • The Four Flavors of Eros as Pathways to Expansion
  • The Joy of Whole-Person, Multimodal Sex
  • Coming Out from the Shadows of Secrecy

CLASS #25

Sunday, April 4, 2027

From Caution to Creativity

  • The Three Pillars: Sharing, Caring, and Daring
  • Establishing a Contract for Safe Expression
  • Designing a Couples’ Sexual Theater
  • The 4 Levels of “Parts Play”

CLASS #26

Monday April 5, 2027

Navigating Differing Arousal Pathways

  • Creating an Erotic Menu with Embodied Consent
  • Finding Common Ground: Differing Arousal Pathways
  • Exploring the Roots of Aversions
  • Live Practice, Q&A, and Integration of Core Skills

9

Being an Ethical and Inclusive Practitioner

This segment examines the often-overlooked, yet powerful micro moments where inclusion, safety and trust are either built or compromised—from a client’s first visit to your website or waiting room, to the deeply personal conversations that unfold in session.

Through a process of guided self-reflection, we’ll explore implicit bias, examine the impact of kink-phobia and polyphobia in clinical work, and identify areas where well-intended therapists may inadvertently cause harm. We’ll also clarify the ethical intersections between cultural humility, client-centered care, and the boundaries of scope of practice to create a therapeutic environment that truly welcomes individuals across the spectrum of sexual, relational, and gender diversity.

Guest Presenter: Rachel Anne Kieran, Psy.D. Expert in sexual, gender, and relational diversity, including sexual and affectional identity/orientation, transgender issues, queer theory, BDSM and kink, polyamory, and other non-monogamies.

Skills: Creating inclusive healing spaces for marginalized sexualities, Informed therapeutic Consent, recognizing when to refer out, Differentiating Consensual Power Exchange from Partner Abuse

CLASS #27

Monday, May 3, 2027

Ethics & DEI: Understanding Their Intersection

  • Working with Marginalized Sexualities
  • Creating Affirming and Accessible Therapeutic Spaces
  • Communication and Consent: The Cornerstones of Ethical Practice
  • Ethical Boundaries and Scope of Practice

10

Erotic Attunement: From Habit to Improvisation, From Striving to Savoring

In this tenth segment of the training, we support partners in rediscovering the creativity, curiosity, and joy of erotic emergence.

You’ll revisit the transformative potential of goal-free sex and explore embodiment practices that help partners attune to the natural flow of Eros within their bodies and between each other. A central focus of this segment is awakening from the Performance Trance—a state of striving shaped by external ideals and rigid expectations that fuel anxiety, disconnection, and self-judgment. You’ll learn how to guide partners in shifting from performance to presence, and in cultivating inside-out pleasure pathways rooted in attunement, play, and authentic erotic expression.

Skills: Breath Attunement, Back-to-Back Attunement, Body Scan, The Naked Pause, Emptying, the EROS cycle, Working the edge

CLASS #28

Sunday, June 6, 2027

From Trance to Naked Truth

  • Signs and Signposts of the “Performance Trance”
  • Automaticity: the Greatest Barrier to PEP
  • Great Sex is Not a Recipe
  • Attunement Over Achievement

CLASS #29

Monday June 7, 2027

Reclaiming Erotic Aliveness

  • From Perfection to Presence
  • Mindful Sexuality: Embracing Uncertainty and Creativity
  • Moving From the Inside Out
  • The Essence of Attunement: Feeling Me While Feeling You

CLASS #30

Sunday, July 11, 2027

The EROS Cycle: Embody, Relate, Open to Impulses, & Savor

  • Into the Dark: The Joy of Goal-Free Sex
  • Moving From the Probable to the Possible
  • Struggle Before Ease: The Arc of Improvisation
  • Stay Awake: Never Do the Same Thing Twice

CLASS #31

Monday, July 12, 2027

Eros in Motion: Navigating the Edge Between Challenge and Flo

  • Working with EROS Cycle Barriers
  • Pure Erotic Potential and The Flow State
  • Interrupting Automaticity with the Naked Pause
  • Live Practice, Q&A, and Integration of Core Skills

11

Tending Eros through the Seasons

As we enter the eleventh segment of the training, we turn our focus to helping clients tend their erotic gardens—nurturing embodied intimacy that can continue to evolve and thrive through all the seasons of life.

For many aging partners, the loss of familiar sexual scripts leads to disconnection or resignation. But when we shift from a goal-oriented model of sex to one rooted in sensation, presence, and attuned connection, eros can reawaken in expansive and life-giving ways. Through this somatic lens, we’ll reframe aging not as a decline, but as an invitation to deepen into a fluid, collaborative, and embodied intimacy that honors each season and stage of life.

Skills: Befriending, Creating a Sustainability Plan

CLASS #32

Monday, August 9, 2027

Erotic Sustainability

  • Why Aging Couples Disengage from Sex
  • Working with Grief and Loss
  • The Unspoken Truth About Menopause
  • Genital Prime vs. Sexual Prime

12

Erotic Alchemy: Weaving & Integrating

This culminating class weaves together key learnings from the entire course, empowering you to embody and apply your skills and insights with confidence and clinical finesse.

We’ll explore the hallmarks of awakened intimacy, focusing on how to transform client challenges into pathways for growth, healing, and expanded erotic connection. The session integrates the psychospiritual dimensions of erotic alchemy, enriching your therapeutic approach. Through ritual, presentations, and individualized sessions, we will bring closure to this transformative learning journey and celebrate your professional and personal growth.

CLASS #33

Monday, August 30, 2027

The Path and Practice of Awakened Intimacy

  • Waking Up Is Hard to Do (And Oh, So Rewarding!)
  • Meeting Our Pain Points to Grow Our PEP (Pure Erotic Potential)
  • Stage 3: Sexual Alchemy
  • Course Integration & Completion

What students say

It has been so nourishing, Maci, to see you working. I am deeply inspired by your skills and the way you hold complexity in such a spacious way- how simplicity can exist at the center of this tangled web of our humanity. Thank you for sharing your joy, passion, and meticulous approach. I am touched by how much of yourself you have offered to us.

N.P.

Super powerful and essential information provided in the most gentle and loving way possible. Amazing experience, altogether!

C.R.

Maci is an extraordinary person and an illuminating supervisor. She has a unique ability to foster the personal growth of the therapist while addressing the many technical facets of the method. She does this with immense kindness, deep respect, and wisdom. My encounters with her in supervision are always enlivening and a great source of inspiration.

H.M.

Coming from the shame of sexual abuse and my bi-sexual lifestyle, I did not believe I could find a safe place to heal and be understood. Cutting off from my sexuality made me feel hopeless and empty in what I had to offer my partner. However, by completing P & P, that has all changed to my surprise. This retreat was one of the best experiences I have had.

L.H.

A life-changing, healing, and transformational model. I feel nourished and hopeful about keeping my love relationship re-invigorated.

G.S.

It amazes me that after so little time practicing the principles and methods learned in P&P, I quickly integrated the learning into my life. My partner and I are thrilled and again on a journey of discovery and loving presence in our relationship.

K.H.

Program Details

FORMAT

33 online, 4.5 hour, synchronous classes

DATES

May 17, 2026 - August 30, 2027

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$5,450

$4,575

one-time payment
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$4,828

Payment plan

Now through November 10, 2025
EARLY BIRD
$5,450

$5,025

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$5,275

Payment plan

November 11, 2025 – March 25, 2026

REGULAR TUITION: $5,450

Read our Financial Terms and Conditions here.
Contact us at info@passionandpresence.com

There is a $75 application fee to apply, payable through PayPal.

Q & A

The Passion & Presence® Certificate Training is designed primarily for helping professionals—such as therapists, couples therapists, counselors, healthcare providers, and coaches.
If you are not a licensed professional, please be aware that additional training or credentials may be required to ethically and legally practice sex therapy with couples. It is your responsibility to stay informed about, and comply with, the professional and legal guidelines specific to your region or field.

Even seasoned sexologists, sex therapists, and clinicians will find value in this training. It offers experiential methods for uncovering unconscious barriers to pleasure and self-expression—tools that go beyond traditional talk therapy. Practitioners who wish to deepen their work within a mindful, present-centered paradigm will appreciate the emphasis on awareness, embodiment, and exploration, rather than diagnosis or treatment.

This program equips you to address many common sexual issues that arise in long-term relationships. However, it does not cover treatment for out-of-control sexual behaviors (commonly referred to as “sex addiction”) or certain medical and pain-related conditions such as genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder or erectile difficulties.

Yes, you will learn valuable techniques and a perspective on sexuality that can enhance your work with individual clients. However, please note that most practice sessions involve role-playing as a therapist working with two partners, reflecting the program’s focus on issues that primarily arise in long-term relationships.

The Passion & Presence® approach is designed to benefit people of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship styles, and preferences.
If you plan to work primarily with kinky, queer, trans, or non-monogamous clients, we recommend pursuing additional specialized training in these areas. We are happy to provide resources and guidance to support your learning journey.

We ask applicants to apply so we can ensure a strong fit between what you’re looking to learn and what this training offers. The application process helps us understand your goals, how you plan to practice the skills outside of class, and whether our mindful, experiential approach aligns with your values and professional path.

Hakomi’s principles, skills, and spirit are a foundational influence on the Passion and Presence® approach. For this reason, if you have not previously trained in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, you will be required to complete and confirm participation in a Hakomi Introductory Workshop before beginning the Passion and Presence training.

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This training is a significant time commitment and is not self-paced. On average, you should plan to dedicate 11–15 hours per month (approximately 3 hours per week) to the program. This includes:

  • One or two live, virtual classes per month (each 4.5 hours; up to 9 hours total)
  • A monthly mandatory 3-hour “Home Group” session for practice and reflection
  • 2–3 hours of additional reading, listening to recordings, or integration work


Please carefully consider your availability before applying.

This is a live, synchronous virtual training consisting of 33 real-time classes, supplemented by recorded video and audio content from Maci and other experts.
While classes are recorded for review, consistent live attendance is essential. Many key learning experiences—such as breakout groups and experiential exercises—can only be accessed during the live sessions.

Yes, all classes are recorded. If you miss a session, you are expected to watch the recording and recreate the practice session on your own—ideally with a practice couple or peer. Many key learning experiences—such as breakout groups and experiential exercises—can only happen during live sessions, so regular attendance is essential.
We recognize that life events—such as weddings, family reunions, or illness—can occasionally prevent attendance. For this reason, you may miss up to six live classes (or 24 hours) over the course of the program if you want to receive a certificate of completion. In all cases, you are responsible for making up the missed content and completing the experiential work independently.

 

You will have lifetime access to the training materials and recordings, provided you complete the program. If you withdraw before finishing the training, your access to the learning portal will be discontinued unless you have paid in full.

Home Groups offer a supportive and consistent space to explore your personal responses to the course material throughout the program. These peer gatherings foster deeper connections with group members and provide a reliable place to “land” between segments. You’ll also use this time to practice the interventions introduced in the course with your Home Group peers. These practice sessions are a vital part of building confidence and developing proficiency in applying the Passion and Presence model with clients.

If you need to miss a Home Group session, please notify your group leader in advance. If more than one member will be absent, the group should consider rescheduling to ensure enough participants are present for meaningful practice.
While you may miss up to six Home Group sessions throughout the training and still qualify for a certificate of completion, we strongly encourage you to attend every session, as these meetings focus on processing the material, personal discoveries, and practicing specific interventions.

Upon successful completion of the program and meeting all requirements, you may call yourself a Passion & Presence® Practitioner. To become a Certified Passion & Presence® Practitioner, you must:

  • Verify that you are a mental health professional, sex therapist, sex educator or coach, counseling or social work graduate student, or medical professional.
  • Complete the entire program.
  • Adhere to the attendance policy.
  • Participate in a minimum of three 1:1 case consultation sessions with Maci (additional fee applies).
  • Submit session write-ups detailing your experience using the Passion & Presence® approach with three couples.

Yes. We offer a 15% tuition reduction for BIPOC participants. You may request this scholarship as part of your application process.

Licensed helping professionals may be eligible to earn CE credits through this program. Please consult your local licensing board or regulatory body to determine whether they accept continuing education credits from AASECT-approved programs for license renewal.

A one-time fee of $175 is required for participants who wish to receive CE credits. This fee must be paid prior to the start of the program.
To receive a certificate of completion for each of the 12 segments, participants must complete both an evaluation and a quiz for each segment.

Disclaimer: Completion of this program does not guarantee AASECT certification. To become a Certified Sex Therapist, additional coursework, practice hours, and 50 hours of supervision with an AASECT-certified supervisor are required. For more information, please contact info@aasect.org.
Note: You must be an active AASECT member from the beginning of the program to apply these credits toward certification.


AASECT certification is available only to professionals from the USA, USA territories, Canada, Mexico, and Israel.
If you are a helping professional from another country and are interested in continuing education credits (CEs), please check with your local licensing board or regulatory body to see if they accept credits from AASECT-approved programs.

Unfortunately, no. The case consultations with Maci do not count toward the AASECT supervision hours. You will need to work with an AASECT-Certified supervisor to fulfill that requirement.

  1. Once you’re accepted into the program, you’ll be asked to submit a non-refundable $750 holding deposit to secure your spot. After that:
  2. You’ll sign a Financial Agreement Form, indicating whether you’ll pay in full or choose a payment plan.
  3. You’ll sign an Enrollment Agreement, which outlines participation guidelines and expectations.

Once we receive both signed agreements, you’ll receive access to the online portal and a copy of the course book will be mailed to you, along with instructions to help you get started.

We recognize that many participants may have a history of trauma, and we strive to create a safe, respectful learning environment. However, because the course includes reading, viewing, and discussing sexual and erotic material, it could be triggering for some.


If you feel you might be triggered, we recommend waiting until you are further along in your healing journey before enrolling. If you’re uncertain, please reach out so we can schedule a conversation to discuss your situation and determine the best path forward.
At a minimum, you will need a personal therapist or support person available to help you process any difficult emotions that arise during the training.

Please note that the holding deposit and application fee are non-refundable.
You may receive a partial refund if you withdraw by the end of the second segment of the training.

After August 10, 2026, no refunds will be issued.
We encourage you to carefully review our Financial Terms and Conditions to fully understand our refund policies.


Additionally, if you choose to withdraw, your access to the online learning portal will be discontinued.

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